The vet doesn't believe me, but our eight year old neutered male cat masturbates on my lap.
He has always been my lap cat. Even on his very first day with us, he preferred to curl up on my lap and fall asleep. Sometimes he would knead my thighs for a short while beforehand.
But for the past two months he's been acting out almost exactly as described in this web article, in which the vet wrote that it's sexual behavior. The only difference between that cat and mine is that my cat thrusts on my lap, not next to me. He briefly touches his hindquarters down and leaves a small wet spot on my pants.
On one such occasion, he suddenly decided to mount another cat that had been sleeping right next to me. That's Mounted, as in jumping on the other cat's back and biting the back of his neck, the way you see the lions do it on those nature programs.
This isn't the first time I've written about this cat. You might remember him better as "Pee-Meister," depicted here.
Well, our vet said it was impossible for a neutered cat to behave this way. He claimed that the cat was simply marking me with urine. He prescribed Vallium, which is supposed to address urination issues. And he recommended that we give one tablespoon of camomile tea to each of the other cats, just to calm everyone down.
Well, I refused to give the Vallium to Pee-Meister, especially considering the diagnosis was incorrect. But all the cats, including Pee-Meister, are getting the tea. The specific recipe is to steep one standard camomile tea bag in 4 ounces of hot water for ten minutes. Store the brewed tea in the refrigerator. Then add one tablespoon of the cold tea to the cat's food once each day. Here's a reference to a website that recommends 1/2 tsp camomile tea. That's one-sixth the amount recommended by my vet. But then again we have Big Cats.
So should we continue to call him "Pee-Meister," or would "Squirt" be better?